If recent news and events have left you angry and frustrated, you may be wondering what you can do to be part of the solution. The most important advice we hear from members of the Black community is that change must be a way of life that begins with the heart, not a box to be checked. White people must learn to be empathetic, and can only do that by understanding the stories, the history and emotions.  

Taking that next step can be difficult when you don’t fully understand this highly complex issue, but for healing to happen, we must confront the ugliness. 

As you consider what action steps you can take, we suggest beginning with prayer. Specifically, ask God to reveal your own personal biases and internalized racism on a daily basis. We all have blind spots and need God’s help to see it, so we can repent from it. Only then, can true change happen. Secondly, ask God to show you what He would have you do. 


Consider reading one—or all—of these books to help educate yourself and your family on race issues in America.

For help explaining racism and educating your children:

Try purchasing these books through locally owned businesses or through the author.


Consider watching any (or all) of these films with your small group, neighbors or family (if age appropriate for your children):


Listen to and support the black community. 

  • When you see racial injustice happening, speak up! As Martin Luther King, Jr. said, “Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter.” This should be a way of life, not just something done at a protest or rally.

  • Watch your words. When you describe someone, is it necessary to call out their race?  If you are speaking with someone on the phone and then later find out they are Black and you assumed they were White, don’t make mention of it. Would you do the same for a White person you assumed has black hair and is actually blond? Probably not. Respect the person for the value of who they are, not the color of their skin.

  • Develop purposeful real relationships, spending intentional time with Black friends. Ask them to tell you their story. Host a monthly inter-racial dinner or backyard BBQ to build relationships and encourage deeper conversation and understanding.

  • Support Black-owned businesses and value them for the hard work and important services and products they offer—not just because they are owned by a Black business owner. Be intentional. When you find a business you love, promote it! Share about it! Refer friends!

  • Take the Dividing Lines audio driving tour of Kansas City to understand the history of segregation. Consider doing this with Black friends and/or your small group for discussion afterward. 

  • Visit museums to learn the local stories and history. 

  • For further training locally, contact The Sending Project KC to learn more about getting involved with a training series he will be hosting in the fall on Bible-Based Trauma and Racial Healing.

Sometimes we don’t do, because we don’t know. Doing begins with gaining understanding and wisdom.

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